Comments on: Whatever happened to the good old-fashioned roll in the hay? http://mybeautifulchandelier.com/2011/07/whatever-happened-to-the-good-old-fashioned-roll-in-the-hay/ the extraordinary, peculiar and everyday Mon, 11 Mar 2013 18:29:52 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1 By: Kate Gould http://mybeautifulchandelier.com/2011/07/whatever-happened-to-the-good-old-fashioned-roll-in-the-hay/#comment-12 Kate Gould Thu, 07 Jul 2011 10:39:28 +0000 http://mybeautifulchandelier.com/?p=461#comment-12 Sounds good to me and it covers a lot of interests. Let me know when you’re up and writing. Good luck with it!

]]> By: djbdjd http://mybeautifulchandelier.com/2011/07/whatever-happened-to-the-good-old-fashioned-roll-in-the-hay/#comment-11 djbdjd Sat, 02 Jul 2011 21:15:39 +0000 http://mybeautifulchandelier.com/?p=461#comment-11 Hi Kate,
I’ve tried to start a blog a number of times but I can never seem to find a groove for an ongoing stream of thoughts, perhaps something to do with books, life and love.
Gary

]]> By: Kate Gould http://mybeautifulchandelier.com/2011/07/whatever-happened-to-the-good-old-fashioned-roll-in-the-hay/#comment-10 Kate Gould Sat, 02 Jul 2011 13:40:53 +0000 http://mybeautifulchandelier.com/?p=461#comment-10 Hey Gary,

That’s no trouble at all. It was an interesting and candid comment on a very confusing subject. Thanks for posting it.

I’m pleased you like the blog. What’s yours going to be about?

Kate

]]> By: djbdjd http://mybeautifulchandelier.com/2011/07/whatever-happened-to-the-good-old-fashioned-roll-in-the-hay/#comment-9 djbdjd Sat, 02 Jul 2011 12:58:27 +0000 http://mybeautifulchandelier.com/?p=461#comment-9 Apologies Kate, I wrote my response from top of my head, thus no editing.

]]> By: djbdjd http://mybeautifulchandelier.com/2011/07/whatever-happened-to-the-good-old-fashioned-roll-in-the-hay/#comment-8 djbdjd Sat, 02 Jul 2011 12:48:20 +0000 http://mybeautifulchandelier.com/?p=461#comment-8 I have always wanted to be a man who enjoyed a simple roll in the hay. It just never seemed to work out that way. I never took Ron Jeremy seriously but there was an incessant need to be curious. I had sex for the first time when I was seventeen, a tragic experience for both parties. A a boy, teenager and a man sex for me was always a ridiculous tangle of bullshit and contradiction. I mean I was never told or even indicated to me what and where the clitoris was. I figured it was much like my cock, (with respects to sexual pleasure) where sensitivity and the orgasm came from the act of sexual intercourse. How disabused was I. Who was supposed to inform me, parents, friends, school or social services. Perhaps there has been social change since the 1980s and kids/teenagers are somewhat purposely informed or made ‘aware’ of the physicality of sex (personally I don’t think you can teach emotional responses). I spent many lonely desperate years without the comfort of sex and any rolls in the hay I had were short brutal attempts at intimacy. Though, through sheer persistance and a desire to be confident or perhaps comfortable in bed with a woman I went to bookshop on impulse when I was twenty seven. I had just been discharged from the army and was loving the freedom of mind and body. I found the medical section and located a large beautifully illustrated book that included detailed drawings of the human sex organs. When I went over the topography of the vagina I discovered what and where the clitoris was (at this stage only in the book). My love life sex life changed for the better after my research and further reading produced more exciting and intense sexual experiences. At that time I had never performed oral sex or indeed received oral sex but after my research I honestly enjoyed the liberating experience of not being afraid of vaginas and in fact embraced it fully. I haven’t looked back.
Great Blog Kate.
Gary

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